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I’m Still African First!

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We’ve all heard it “I’m African, not because I was born in Africa, but Africa was born in me.” It’s true, there is something about our spirit that has created sub-cultures all over the world, even through being victims of enslavement. 99% of what we do as Black people can be directly linked to Africa; even family reunions, even battle rap cyphers, even tap dancing, even creating cornmeal to create cornbread. We have a way of multiplying everything, even if we are not aware of the origins, the origins are in us.

Many people know that I have a dad that is directly from the African continent, and a mom that is a descendant of enslavement victims; they are both Igbo, however. Either way, growing up, I always looked for the similarities between the two cultures, and I always found that we are obviously more alike than different. We are Africans, dispersed by force, and always resisted, so I can imagine that through that resistance we have held on to our cultures as much as we could. As for me, I am an African baby, I always was excited to go to Africa as a kid, I always was excited to be around Black people in America; I just wanted to know what we were doing, and what we had going on. I have been told my love for Africa is strange, and even other Africans who have had children here have stated that their children resisted the African upbringing, so they were happy to see I embraced it. Even though my dad took me to places like Europe – Switzerland, France, Amsterdam, etc., I still wanted to know what the Black people were doing. I was a child that never cared about conforming like the other Black people I knew – no offense to them, but I didn’t care about trying to talk different, or wear certain labels; I was perfectly fine being African. At the time I did not identify as African, I identified as Black, but I never identified as American. Oh, my dad hated it, “why don’t you want to be an american?”, “I’m a citizen of the world!” I replied. America never felt like home, I only ever felt home in Africa, no matter all the places I’ve been and the trips my dad took me on in and out of the United States, I only felt home in Africa.

So I get older and now all of a sudden, because I am so centered on myself, and the reflection of that is being centered on African people worldwide, suddenly people think “you need to get out more”, “you need to experience other types of people”, lol. I laugh, loud, because my experience ranges with so many people. I have sat in the white house amongst politicians, and stood up to speak my mind on the hill to members of congress. I have tutored undergraduate Asian students as a grad student , and grew up being one of the only Black students with white people. I have visited many embassies in Washington, DC, and engaged in their cultures for the purpose of learning their cultures. I have engaged other cultures and asked them very detailed questions for the purpose of learning, and appreciating who they are. I lived with Italian, white Dominican, and Korean roommates in undergrad, and participated in each of their cultures through food and information sharing; my Korean roommate taught me so much about her culture. I could go on and on, but it doesn’t matter, I am still African first. I still only care to be involved in and uplift the mentality and actions of my people. I am still going to greet my people as if I am one of them and one with them, no matter where they are from. I am still going to care about the little Black child in every room I am in, even if their parent is there. I am still going to speak up for all Black people in every setting I am in. I am African first, not because I was born in Africa, but Africa is me. I am an extension of the greatness of the continent and my ancestors before me. I am an explorer, a learner, a teacher, and I see the world through an African lens. I am the very being of my ancestors who came before me. I am ubuntu in spirit and in action – I am because we are, my people. I am well versed in our spirit, and I can feel what you need before you even vocalize it. Don’t ever mistake my love for my people with a lack of knowledge of everything else. And let me be clear, even if Africa and Black people was all I knew, I would be just fine.

Any united people on this earth, and any proud person is proud of themselves first. They enter the world confident and prideful because they know where they come from. Loving one’s self is actually the key to truly appreciating others. I am able to give love so freely, because I freely love myself. I am able to demand the best for myself, because I freely love myself, and I am able to call out unworthy behavior towards myself, because I love myself. Black people have no allies but ourselves, this is true, because the world has become accustomed to taking from Black people and not giving anything in return. The number one key to eradicating that is to be Black first, demand respect based on your culture and legacy just like anybody else. Even if you don’t identify with Africa, Identify with your culture first, and show up in the world as a proud person, be well versed in yourself, and that is evident in the well-versedness of your people. Don’t be so concerned with being well versed in everybody else, be well versed in yourself. Listen, my people, we all know Asians are famous for opening businesses in Black neighborhoods, selling us products that are very culture specific to Black people. There are more beauty supply stores in Black neighborhoods, owned by Asians that only sell black products, than Black owned stores of the same caliber. Well, I walked into an Asian beauty supply one day, and the owner was not familiar with a Black culture I referenced. I straight up told him, you run a beauty supply store geared towards black people, and you don’t know this? Well my people, I told you this example to show you that other people engage with us having no regard for who we are, yet we are too concerned with trying to be globally minded. We need to master ourselves, it will show up in the respect and support we have for each other, and the respect we demand for ourselves. I understand that we as Black people are the only people in the world who have had the truth of our cultures stripped from us, hidden from us, and lied to about ourselves, however, we know enough about our power at this point to be prideful, even if we can’t connect it to a direct culture. If we remove the lies, we will see that American culture is built on Black culture. For those of us who do not have ties to a direct African culture, we should be on the frontlines fighting for reparations with free DNA tests (***please see the end of this blog post for a suggested resource). And yes, we should be globally minded, I can enter any space and be good in any space of any culture, but I would not be proud of that if I could not say that I am good in any black space, first.

Have some pride my people…

If you have not, be sure to check out Melanated Gem™, I created this brand of handmade jewelry to instill a sense of pride in us as a people. I create African centered jewelry with empowering words to remind us of who we are. I especially love the RBG Freedom Set©, which represents the PanAfrican colors of freedom, Red, Black, and Green; also the Igbo Biafran color of freedom that are the same. The name Melanated Gem™ is a reminder that we are Melanated Empowered Gems! We come in a variety of shades and colors and backgrounds, but all together, we are beautiful. I love you all ok!

***I think it’s important that I begin to give more examples of what I have done to achieve results in certain areas. If all my Black readers could at least identify the birthplace of your grandparents, it may be helpful to identify any museum or foundation that holds records in that area. In 2013, I was able to call the foundation of the birthplace of my grandparents in Virginia and request information on my ancestors that was very helpful. The name of the foundation is named after the slave owner (I hate to type his name). For example, I found out that my great grandfather changed the last name of the family and why; I found out that he was the first to leave a plantation and purchase a house at 100 years old, and recently, my elderly cousin was able to call the same foundation and get the death certificates of our enslaved family members. It is a shame that we have to request our information from white people, but it is worth it until we get full reparations. As I said in Sunday’s blog post, faith and action is the first step to anything, I guarantee if you take a step in the direction of actively seeking information, you will find it, and pray for guidance! I also teach about that in my Decolonize Your Mind™ class.

Toodles!

4 thoughts on “I’m Still African First!

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  2. The variety and vast differences in the Black experience here in America has been, and is still being used to divide and distract us. The end goal of keeping us as a people from coming together and working with each other to realize out own uplift and progress is a major goal of the exploitative system we are all born into and under. Whether born in the ghetto of Detroit or the ghetto of Johannesburg we the powerless and subjugated are exploited and dominated by those who control the mechanisms of power over our interrelated political, economic, and social institutions. It’s a small, small world takes on a whole new meaning when you realize just how much of it’s systems and processes are owned and manipulated by such a small number of individual entities. Our division and disorganization energizes and enables their strength. Our distraction and competition with each other provides the fertile ground for their influence to grow and impact our thoughts and actions within their system.

    We are all more than willing to accept the fact that we are originally from Africa, what we have a more difficult time doing is attaching ourselves to a culture and geographic location we have never known or experienced. Our memories and relationships are a product of our experiences and contributions made by us and built upon through our sacrifices in this North American social system. Our abuse under it is a reality that fires up our desire for retribution and stands as a reminder that we must achieve compensation from those who benefited from our ancestors enslavement. Their labor and abuse was never forgotten, it was only hidden away from us by those who stood to gain from the concealment of those crimes. We are duty bound to never allow the crimes of the powerful to go unpunished, simply because it’s more convenient and comfortable to seek acceptance and peace with them. The truth is they have only ever sought to dominate and profit from us. That is a reality that persists up until the present day. The debt their system is refusing to pay us is only growing larger and creating more animosity by the way the justification for it is being questioned.

    Black means many things depending on your perspective. To American born Black people it means we are the survivors and descendants of a strong and ingenious people. We were able to first navigate a history of abuse and terror, then we produced some of the greatest social, political, economic and artistic minds the world has ever known. We are fighters and we will not have our existence as a distinct and original ethnic group wiped away out of a misplaced desire to claim ownership or kinship with what once was. Our origination is up for debate, but that is a discussion for scholars and academics to have in their own time and space. What is not up for debate is our originality and innovation when it comes to the areas of human development that we dominate in. Africa is where all human life originated, if we are to believe the theories presently holding sway in academic circles. What is also just as true is that when all you know is where you’ve always been that is what you call and consider your home. what your ancestors build and history proves is ancient is as much verification as anyone sensible should need to stake a claim of native status on any land mass in the world. Africa itself was divided into countries and territories by the Europeans. Those borders and designations are false and imaginary divisions. the world suffers from a case of selective amnesia when it comes to recognizing the contributions and sacrifices the African continent and its many people’s have offered, many times unwillingly, to the world we know today. We are who we say and believe we are. Our identities are not fluid or interchangeable. They are the result or consequence of a history and cultural reinforcement that none of us choose but we can also not resist.

    Black is a many splendored thing. It defies definition because it is too complex and varied to confine to mere language. Experience it and appreciate it, but never try to contain its expression.

    1. This is a wonderful explanation. Thank you

    2. I would also like to add that even if someone does not identify with Africa, the very foundation of America is black culture and we know how powerful we are in the strides with made even under oppression, so we should have that sense of pride about ourselves and not continue to conform but I understand that everywhere we are we are the dominant culture.

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